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We've moved house!

Also since my last post I've had abdominal surgery to remove a 10x10cm paratubal cyst, come off opiates, gone through withdrawal, and made substantial progress on the process of actual grief it turns out you go through when you find out that you're never ever going to have kids because you need a hysterectomy to remove your pre-cancerous uterus.

In the course of the last surgery they took a bunch of samples of my uterus and uncovered the early stages of a plot to murder me. Murder-uterus has been served with an eviction notice, surgery date is still unscheduled.

I'm anticipating it being in the next few months, but it's not hyper-urgent enough for it to be happening just yet. Probably going to be delayed a little further by the UK variant breaking loose in Perth.

The new house is really nice. We liked our old house, we lived there for twelve years, and now it seems so awful. (Doesn't help that multiple things just... went wrong, recently. Like the range hood broke down and the ancient wall unit for the aircon was going critical (so fucking loud, oh my god) while this place is newly-built and just... so nice.)
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From:[personal profile] sovay
Date: February 2nd, 2021 03:52 am (UTC)
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Also since my last post I've had abdominal surgery to remove a 10x10cm paratubal cyst, come off opiates, gone through withdrawal, and made substantial progress on the process of actual grief it turns out you go through when you find out that you're never ever going to have kids because you need a hysterectomy to remove your pre-cancerous uterus.

That is a lot.

I am glad the new house is a nice one and that the murder uterus is not such an urgent situation that you're looking at pandemic surgery next week.

*hugs* if useful and not if not.
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From:[personal profile] sami
Date: February 2nd, 2021 04:20 am (UTC)
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Thank you.

It's strange, because I thought I'd kinda given up hope on having children, and then it turned out I had definitely still had hope lingering because I found myself crying for hours about it.

I was still in withdrawal at the time, probably didn't help. (Opiates withdrawal sucks. This isn't news.)
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From:[personal profile] susanreads
Date: February 2nd, 2021 03:14 pm (UTC)
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Wow, that is a lot! (My only excuse for not posting is I don't feel like talking.) Best wishes for the surgery, whenever it happens.
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